10 Potential Red Flags Of Abuse

Producer: Priyanka Das Editor: Aparna Singh

Embarrassing or putting you down.

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Preventing you or discouraging you from seeing your friends or families.

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Preventing you from making your own decisions.

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Blaming you for the abuse, or acting like it’s not really happening.

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Looking at you or acting in ways that scare you.

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Preventing you from working or attending school.

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Taking your money or refusing to give you money for expenses.

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Telling you that you are a bad parent or threatening to harm or take away your children.

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Shoving, slapping, choking, or hitting you.

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Attempting to stop you from pressing charges.

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