8 Ways To Deal With A Child's Tantrums

Producer: Shreeja Bhattacharya

Maintain composure to model emotional regulation for the child during tantrums.

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Acknowledge their emotions, helping them feel understood and heard.

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Create a predictable schedule to minimize stress and reduce the likelihood of tantrums.

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Encourage positive behavior through praise and rewards for good conduct.

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Communicate rules and expectations in simple terms to avoid confusion.

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Shift their focus to a different activity or object to divert from the tantrum.

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Create a designated area where the child can calm down independently.

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Help them develop healthy coping mechanisms like deep breathing or counting.

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