Moneycontrol News | June 12, 2024
Ageing is a natural process that affects everyone differently, including fathers. It's essential to recognise that ageing is a complex and individualised journey, and each dad deals with it differently
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Here’s how you can support your ageing dad and help him maintain dignity and freedom while strengthening family bonds
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Don’t patronise: Ageing brings physical limitations, making tasks like driving or doing household chores, a challenge. Offer practical assistance without being patronising. Seek professional help if necessary
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Forgetfulness: Ageing dads may become forgetful, misplacing items or forgetting appointments. Offer gentle reminders and encourage the use of memory aids like calendars or reminder apps
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Grumpiness: When fathers grow old, they get moody and irritated due to health issues or frustration with limitations. Be empathetic understanding. Encourage them to engage in activities they enjoy
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Isolation: Ageing dads withdraw socially due to mobility issues or loss of family members/ friends. Encourage social engagement for them. Accompany them to social outings to reduce isolation and promote connections
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Reluctance to change: Ageing dads resist changes in routine or technology. Introduce changes gradually and offer assistance with new gadgets or tasks
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Repetition: Older dads repeat stories or anecdotes due to memory lapses. Practice active listening and patience, even if you've heard the story before. Redirect the conversation gently if needed
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Stubbornness: Older dads sometime become more set in their ways, refusing help or insisting on doing things independently. Respect their independence. Nevertheless, offer support when needed
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