How to Adjust with Your Parents-in-law

Producer: Priyanka Das Editor: Sujata Singh

[{"selector":"#anim-d73f9550-0642-4f1c-993b-222a39e9548a","keyframes":{"opacity":[0,1]},"delay":0,"duration":2000,"easing":"cubic-bezier(.3,0,.55,1)","fill":"both"}] [{"selector":"#anim-0642ade0-6080-465a-8759-dcea77b4fc5d","keyframes":{"transform":["scale(0.3333333333333333)","scale(1)"]},"delay":0,"duration":2000,"easing":"cubic-bezier(.3,0,.55,1)","fill":"forwards"}] [{"selector":"#anim-06ffe7f1-da9f-400f-af43-e78dec1f4a08","keyframes":{"opacity":[0,1]},"delay":0,"duration":1000,"easing":"cubic-bezier(0.2, 0.6, 0.0, 1)","fill":"both"}] [{"selector":"#anim-4861ce36-d695-431a-961f-d7f506c54f55","keyframes":{"transform":["translate3d(0px, 172.02021%, 0)","translate3d(0px, 0px, 0)"]},"delay":0,"duration":1000,"easing":"cubic-bezier(0.2, 0.6, 0.0, 1)","fill":"both"}] Give them emotional support as this would make them feel secure and happy. This act will make you adjust easily to them.

[{"selector":"#anim-0b0780c6-7d39-4b9e-bfee-9ca1d7e3ce1f","keyframes":{"opacity":[0,1]},"delay":0,"duration":2000,"easing":"cubic-bezier(.3,0,.55,1)","fill":"both"}] [{"selector":"#anim-2b9b9469-953b-4680-ac3e-07bad743ad4b","keyframes":{"transform":["scale(0.3333333333333333)","scale(1)"]},"delay":0,"duration":2000,"easing":"cubic-bezier(.3,0,.55,1)","fill":"forwards"}] [{"selector":"#anim-b0c9f6aa-0edd-4e20-a4c4-e4355dd422e0","keyframes":{"opacity":[0,1]},"delay":0,"duration":1000,"easing":"cubic-bezier(0.2, 0.6, 0.0, 1)","fill":"both"}] [{"selector":"#anim-c1a1d009-46af-4e33-a482-c0f32d009950","keyframes":{"transform":["translate3d(0px, 172.02021%, 0)","translate3d(0px, 0px, 0)"]},"delay":0,"duration":1000,"easing":"cubic-bezier(0.2, 0.6, 0.0, 1)","fill":"both"}] Give them their space and let them give you space too. They have their own life so let them do what they wish for.

[{"selector":"#anim-573e2edc-5040-414a-8901-71f83bd9ddfd","keyframes":{"opacity":[0,1]},"delay":0,"duration":2000,"easing":"cubic-bezier(.3,0,.55,1)","fill":"both"}] [{"selector":"#anim-26a3f243-0db3-4302-9512-93d24e07a5bb","keyframes":{"transform":["scale(0.3333333333333333)","scale(1)"]},"delay":0,"duration":2000,"easing":"cubic-bezier(.3,0,.55,1)","fill":"forwards"}] [{"selector":"#anim-028c684e-bcdd-4abb-98d3-fda573fe4816","keyframes":{"opacity":[0,1]},"delay":0,"duration":1000,"easing":"cubic-bezier(0.2, 0.6, 0.0, 1)","fill":"both"}] [{"selector":"#anim-4a6d3c4d-231d-4b3c-9c53-f261000acfaa","keyframes":{"transform":["translate3d(0px, 140.16460%, 0)","translate3d(0px, 0px, 0)"]},"delay":0,"duration":1000,"easing":"cubic-bezier(0.2, 0.6, 0.0, 1)","fill":"both"}] Keep pampering your parents-in-law with their favourite sweets or meals; this would keep them happy and they won’t interfere in your matters.

[{"selector":"#anim-12852160-cada-45f9-b616-a815dbae8ebd","keyframes":{"opacity":[0,1]},"delay":0,"duration":2000,"easing":"cubic-bezier(.3,0,.55,1)","fill":"both"}] [{"selector":"#anim-6dcc4ca2-d217-4506-9dde-03ff99a088f0","keyframes":{"transform":["scale(0.3333333333333333)","scale(1)"]},"delay":0,"duration":2000,"easing":"cubic-bezier(.3,0,.55,1)","fill":"forwards"}] [{"selector":"#anim-975d9c18-f183-451f-9703-c3d6d6d49546","keyframes":{"opacity":[0,1]},"delay":0,"duration":1000,"easing":"cubic-bezier(0.2, 0.6, 0.0, 1)","fill":"both"}] [{"selector":"#anim-5d9571e2-5342-4be0-85d6-37a79b2c0443","keyframes":{"transform":["translate3d(0px, 203.88223%, 0)","translate3d(0px, 0px, 0)"]},"delay":0,"duration":1000,"easing":"cubic-bezier(0.2, 0.6, 0.0, 1)","fill":"both"}] If your parents-in-law prefers to stay alone then let them do so and visit them weekly.

[{"selector":"#anim-770c2778-638d-487e-9e49-4c34fa048775","keyframes":{"opacity":[0,1]},"delay":0,"duration":2000,"easing":"cubic-bezier(.3,0,.55,1)","fill":"both"}] [{"selector":"#anim-b26fe22b-3d81-4089-854e-aabfa38f9b25","keyframes":{"transform":["scale(0.3333333333333333)","scale(1)"]},"delay":0,"duration":2000,"easing":"cubic-bezier(.3,0,.55,1)","fill":"forwards"}] [{"selector":"#anim-186a0511-90d0-47e2-ae73-c1705ca2739a","keyframes":{"opacity":[0,1]},"delay":0,"duration":1000,"easing":"cubic-bezier(0.2, 0.6, 0.0, 1)","fill":"both"}] [{"selector":"#anim-81171739-b103-48b5-a059-03bd69532a0f","keyframes":{"transform":["translate3d(0px, 156.56566%, 0)","translate3d(0px, 0px, 0)"]},"delay":0,"duration":1000,"easing":"cubic-bezier(0.2, 0.6, 0.0, 1)","fill":"both"}] Ignore if they scold you or are rude while talking until they reach a limit which is not acceptable. Don’t take it personally or to your heart.

[{"selector":"#anim-f551624c-bd9a-4e60-8a9d-48017cbce0eb","keyframes":{"opacity":[0,1]},"delay":0,"duration":2000,"easing":"cubic-bezier(.3,0,.55,1)","fill":"both"}] [{"selector":"#anim-512b757c-782f-46bd-ae79-cf8c2902bbd8","keyframes":{"transform":["scale(0.3333333333333333)","scale(1)"]},"delay":0,"duration":2000,"easing":"cubic-bezier(.3,0,.55,1)","fill":"forwards"}] [{"selector":"#anim-ec823f51-7ce2-4ce9-a44e-22b54e386bc2","keyframes":{"opacity":[0,1]},"delay":0,"duration":1000,"easing":"cubic-bezier(0.2, 0.6, 0.0, 1)","fill":"both"}] [{"selector":"#anim-ac5c53e4-d64b-4af2-a751-73da0cc8bbbd","keyframes":{"transform":["translate3d(0px, 156.56566%, 0)","translate3d(0px, 0px, 0)"]},"delay":0,"duration":1000,"easing":"cubic-bezier(0.2, 0.6, 0.0, 1)","fill":"both"}] If you have any issues, communicate with them and clear it out before the relationship gets worse.

[{"selector":"#anim-f6927b4f-dbd5-4bac-9c75-65bcfcab30b5","keyframes":{"opacity":[0,1]},"delay":0,"duration":2000,"easing":"cubic-bezier(.3,0,.55,1)","fill":"both"}] [{"selector":"#anim-f73b4d42-19a4-4daf-adf8-dba7c548fece","keyframes":{"transform":["scale(0.3333333333333333)","scale(1)"]},"delay":0,"duration":2000,"easing":"cubic-bezier(.3,0,.55,1)","fill":"forwards"}] [{"selector":"#anim-166a2e2b-0c90-4b4b-ae82-a26cef0de924","keyframes":{"opacity":[0,1]},"delay":0,"duration":1000,"easing":"cubic-bezier(0.2, 0.6, 0.0, 1)","fill":"both"}] [{"selector":"#anim-40f71ae6-6e06-4b05-8401-01281e27dcf0","keyframes":{"transform":["translate3d(0px, 207.49664%, 0)","translate3d(0px, 0px, 0)"]},"delay":0,"duration":1000,"easing":"cubic-bezier(0.2, 0.6, 0.0, 1)","fill":"both"}] Ask your partner to spend time with your parents-in-law and care for them if they are not doing so.

Support them financially if needed.

[{"selector":"#anim-9ae1bf57-fd04-4bae-8c95-45b572d070e6","keyframes":{"opacity":[0,1]},"delay":0,"duration":2000,"easing":"cubic-bezier(.3,0,.55,1)","fill":"both"}] [{"selector":"#anim-2b86adb7-3b98-42dc-8ddd-7e199ae7f4d6","keyframes":{"transform":["scale(0.3333333333333333)","scale(1)"]},"delay":0,"duration":2000,"easing":"cubic-bezier(.3,0,.55,1)","fill":"forwards"}] [{"selector":"#anim-85d1972a-5699-4a33-821a-680be8377f27","keyframes":{"opacity":[0,1]},"delay":0,"duration":1000,"easing":"cubic-bezier(0.2, 0.6, 0.0, 1)","fill":"both"}] [{"selector":"#anim-d6803241-7213-41ba-a9eb-c6553dd2c1c9","keyframes":{"transform":["translate3d(0px, 246.03173%, 0)","translate3d(0px, 0px, 0)"]},"delay":0,"duration":1000,"easing":"cubic-bezier(0.2, 0.6, 0.0, 1)","fill":"both"}]

Go out with them once a month on a small vacation or shopping or for a small meal at their favourite restaurant.

[{"selector":"#anim-119c5f73-3954-47ef-a9b8-92de0e66692f","keyframes":{"opacity":[0,1]},"delay":0,"duration":2000,"easing":"cubic-bezier(.3,0,.55,1)","fill":"both"}] [{"selector":"#anim-48ea89e1-3ac5-42a5-8ff7-874ced823ef5","keyframes":{"transform":["scale(0.3333333333333333)","scale(1)"]},"delay":0,"duration":2000,"easing":"cubic-bezier(.3,0,.55,1)","fill":"forwards"}] [{"selector":"#anim-937ee25f-2a55-4e52-a867-4dddfe5ecb02","keyframes":{"opacity":[0,1]},"delay":0,"duration":1000,"easing":"cubic-bezier(0.2, 0.6, 0.0, 1)","fill":"both"}] [{"selector":"#anim-f6161e9e-cbda-447b-85ef-d4f7f485823b","keyframes":{"transform":["translate3d(0px, 153.51848%, 0)","translate3d(0px, 0px, 0)"]},"delay":0,"duration":1000,"easing":"cubic-bezier(0.2, 0.6, 0.0, 1)","fill":"both"}]

Try to involve yourself with them and bond with them via household activities.

[{"selector":"#anim-e98232d3-bcc4-4b50-aaae-f742f2b667f6","keyframes":{"opacity":[0,1]},"delay":0,"duration":2000,"easing":"cubic-bezier(.3,0,.55,1)","fill":"both"}] [{"selector":"#anim-e4171d1e-41b3-45d5-bb15-1ce444316f2e","keyframes":{"transform":["scale(0.3333333333333333)","scale(1)"]},"delay":0,"duration":2000,"easing":"cubic-bezier(.3,0,.55,1)","fill":"forwards"}] [{"selector":"#anim-e284d852-9c7b-4221-9fcf-6d3ab93b7bd6","keyframes":{"opacity":[0,1]},"delay":0,"duration":1000,"easing":"cubic-bezier(0.2, 0.6, 0.0, 1)","fill":"both"}] [{"selector":"#anim-f6a7363d-d6db-47bc-bd14-75e17b61cb6e","keyframes":{"transform":["translate3d(0px, 204.69131%, 0)","translate3d(0px, 0px, 0)"]},"delay":0,"duration":1000,"easing":"cubic-bezier(0.2, 0.6, 0.0, 1)","fill":"both"}]

[{"selector":"#anim-46ef4dc1-abef-4b70-b47f-23c76621f8a0","keyframes":{"opacity":[0,1]},"delay":350,"duration":1400,"easing":"cubic-bezier(0.2, 0.6, 0.0, 1)","fill":"both"}] [{"selector":"#anim-4cc11348-3153-49db-af27-fd3d47813241","keyframes":{"transform":["translate3d(0px, 88.53615%, 0)","translate3d(0px, 0px, 0)"]},"delay":350,"duration":1400,"easing":"cubic-bezier(0.2, 0.6, 0.0, 1)","fill":"both"}] [{"selector":"#anim-e00ea305-90f1-4ee7-ada1-9897bb51d324","keyframes":{"opacity":[0,1]},"delay":100,"duration":2000,"easing":"cubic-bezier(0.2, 0.6, 0.0, 1)","fill":"both"}] [{"selector":"#anim-7b84a790-4ee5-410e-bf30-a160e17f5074","keyframes":{"transform":["translate3d(110.94676%, 0px, 0)","translate3d(0px, 0px, 0)"]},"delay":100,"duration":2000,"easing":"cubic-bezier(0.2, 0.6, 0.0, 1)","fill":"both"}]

How to Adjust with Your Parents-in-law

Support them financially if needed.

Go out with them once a month on a small vacation or shopping or for a small meal at their favourite restaurant.

Try to involve yourself with them and bond with them via household activities.

next

How To Identify Unresolved Conflicts And Their Impact On Relationships