How To Let Your Crush Know About Your Feelings

Producer: Shreeja Bhattacharya

Choose the Right Moment: Find a private, comfortable setting to talk.

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Be Direct but Gentle: Clearly express your feelings without pressure.

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Use "I" Statements: Share your feelings without making assumptions about their response.

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Respect Their Feelings: Be prepared for any response, and accept their decision gracefully.

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Keep It Simple: Avoid overcomplicating things; a simple declaration can be effective.

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Maintain Respect and Friendship: Regardless of the outcome, continue to treat them with kindness.

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Give Them Time: Allow them to process their feelings before expecting a response.

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Stay Positive: Whether the outcome is positive or negative, focus on the courage it took to share your feelings.

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